A Not-So-Perfect Life with a Baby

Daily Routine Habits for 6 to 12 Months

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Life With a Baby Isn’t Perfect (And That’s Totally Normal)

I used to scroll through Instagram and think all moms had it together. White kitchens, spotless floors, babies in matching outfits, and coffee that’s somehow still hot.

Then I had a baby. Spoiler alert: my living room looks like a toy explosion, my coffee is perpetually cold, and my hair lives in a messy bun that’s 0% cute, 100% survival mode.

And guess what? That’s perfectly fine. The truth is, real life with a baby is messy, loud, exhausting—and hilarious. For babies 6 months to 1 year old, routines aren’t about perfection—they’re about survival, sanity, and tiny moments of joy.

Daily Routine Habits for a Baby (6–12 Months)

Every baby is different, and some days feel like you’re hosting a tiny tornado. Here are realistic habits to help you get through the day without losing your mind.

Your baby might wake up smiling… or screaming like a tiny fire alarm. Either way, mornings set the tone.

  • Habit: Open the curtains and let natural light in. Baby sees light, your brain sees hope.
  • Don’t worry about breakfast timing. Some mornings, it’s all about cuddles first—and reheating your coffee… again.

From 6 months, solids enter the mix. Hint: bibs are decorative at best.

  • Habit: Offer 2–3 solid meals, but accept that a lot will end up on the floor, wall, or your shirt.
  • Keep a towel or high chair mat handy—it’s cheaper than therapy.
  • Some days, they’ll eat everything. Other days, they’ll decide peas are evil. It’s fine.

Babies this age are explorers with zero fear of disaster.

  • Habit: Rotate a basket of toys to keep them interested.
  • Pinterest-perfect setups? Forget it. A wooden spoon and pot are an all-day fascination.

Naps are a parent’s lifeline, but they’re rarely reliable.

  • Habit: Aim for consistent nap windows, but adapt when needed.
  • Use nap time for yourself—reading, sitting down, or just staring into space. (Reheating that cold coffee counts as self-care.)

Bedtime routines sound serene until your baby decides it’s Fight-The-Sleep edition.

  • Habit: Keep it simple—bath, pajamas, feeding, and a song or story.
  • Consistency wins, even when they’re fussy. Babies love routine, even if we hate repeating it.

The Imperfect Truth About Routines

Some days flow smoothly, some days feel like a toddler-led hurricane. That’s normal. Routines are tools, not rules. Perfection doesn’t exist—real life does.

Focus on habits that make your baby happy enough, keep you sane enough, and allow small moments of peace amidst the chaos.

Forget Instagram. Life with a baby is messy, loud, and exhausting—but full of love, giggles, and unforgettable moments.

If your baby napped 20 minutes instead of 2 hours, or dinner was scrambled eggs instead of homemade purée, you’re still rocking this parent thing.

The best habit of all? Giving yourself grace. You’re doing amazing.

Smol Eats Tip: Keep a quick daily log of meals, naps, and moods. No fancy planner required—your phone works just fine. Patterns will emerge, and those pediatrician visits will be way less stressful.

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